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Sub Porn – Differences Between Girls and Men
By Annette Schwarz | April 27, 2009
Can someone give me a understandable reason why some girls, who really like to be submissive, who enjoy it deep of their heart, love it, to be a sub to a man only and not to a girl?
Okay, honestly, often a man is better in being dominant cause of his power. It feels better when he punches your face. But girls are often amazing doms with a strong right hand, too.
So if u really enjoy it, why don’t you choose a girl? Okay, if the sub usually hasn’t lesbian sex, it’s alright. But there are a lot of girls in the porn industry who do girl-girl and like being manhandled wouldn’t be rough handeld by a girl.
Hmmmm…. I don’t get it – why don’t give a try? I love getting beat up by a girls if she is strong like a man. Sometimes girls are even better in the psychological domination than men!!
What do you think? Is it because some girls don’t like the thought of being weaker than a another girl? But perhaps it’s okay to seem weak next to a man…?
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April 27th, 2009 at 5:29 am
For me it’s because the first thing u say:
some girls don’t like the thought of being weaker than a another girl.
April 27th, 2009 at 7:57 am
As always Annette, your perspective is refreshingly honest and provocative … as a girl who loves to get roughed up-beat up-fucked, I absolutely love reading your insightful words — I can’t say what it is about the difference between men and women as dominants; I’ve only ever had men but I’m coming to challenge this assumption, and quite eager to give girls a shot – thank you as always; love your work! xxxx
April 27th, 2009 at 8:20 am
I have several ideas about this and right now there is no order in my poor head. It will be quite a long comment, I presume…
I consider previous life events as most essential to a person’s psychological development. As there is stated in The Horny Dog trailer: “It takes an extraordinary combination of elements to form a normal person”. The philosophical background of this statement cannot be emphasized enough. I think the right acception of normality should not be established by comparison to conformity, general acceptance or mediocrity but to an ideal. For example, the perfect butterfly presented in a biology atlas doesn’t exist in nature for a number of reasons, but we need to be pictured with an ideal butterfly in order to get an idea of what that creature is. So, even if there is a slut in everyone of us (at least every sane born human being) she still needs an extraordinary combination of elements in order to live at her full potential.
Some girls may consider other girls as competitors to male attention so accepting submission would equal lower status. I think this can be overcomed by a deeper understanding of our instincts and the way they shape our behaviour.
The lack of female power/physical strength doesn’t seem a good reason: if a male would use all his might when punching someone’s face during sex play there would not be sex but tentative of murder at least. I haven’t met a woman so weak that she cannot slap/punch hard enough to break certain bones and open vicious wounds if she really intended that.
We can never know for sure that someone really enjoys something (be it sexual submission, domination, etc).
Associating a negative experience with something pleasant might turn the bad things into pleasurable ones without changing the fact that deep inside we don’t enjoy it. Reflex behaviour should not be underestimated. So there might not be room for more innovations and experiments.
People might not have the courage to explore all sides of something as pleasant as it might be. “It’s good, it’s nice, why should I go further?!”.
On the other hand, the object of sexual attraction in mammals is determined by precise sensitivity to special stimuli (mostly visual but not always). Some people may have innate behavioural patterns who doesn’t allow them to enjoy certain sexual practices. Perhaps it’s the same as some of us can never find pleasure in scat, zoo or something like that while others cannot live without it. It just doesn’t seem right for some.
I’ll take me, for example: I’m not turned on at all by male body, odor, moves or behaviour. But I enjoyed being fucked and brought into submission by men as an ordinary female slut from several reasons (associating it with previous pleasant life experiences when I offered pleasure to a woman by playing some degrading and very dirty stuff like this for her, the sense of being controlled and having a lack of responsability, etc). So, I liked having sex with men despite the fact that I don’t feel anything when touched/kissed by a male. I enjoyed just the rough face and anal abuse part. I don’t enjoy dominating/fucking another male because there is no stimuli for me. Maybe if I would see a woman turned on while I fuck a male I would associate it with a pleasant experience and I’ll be able to find pleasure in it latter on.
It all worries down to the old dilema: nature and nurture. There is need for both to excell, and that’s true even for a complete sex life.
April 27th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
hi anette always a pleasure to see your hot and perfect body !! from top to bottom !!!
I just had one request , as u are german and a very famous pornstar ,
maybe u could say a word to VIVIAN SCHMITT to do some scenes in america !!
That girl is so fucking hot !!!
April 27th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
I think it’s the cock, Annette. I can fill a woman and dominate her in a way that no woman can.
I can hold a woman down and fuck her, taking pleasure from her until I shoot my cum inside her and walk away, leaving the bitch defiled and debased for my satisfaction.
April 28th, 2009 at 12:36 am
Annette,I would pretty much let you do anything you wanted to me,but women are the same as men in this regard,in that there are things you would let the oppostie sex do to you that you would never let a member of your sex do.
April 28th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
Amazing! I just saw a movie the other night — don’t remember the name as I’m getting old and feeble — where the chick was beating the shit out of the guy as he fucked her. She was clearly the dominant one, clawing his eyes and telling him “get down and lick my ass you maggot” and I thought “this is great, I’m glad to see this guy getting his ass kicked by this chick instead of the other way around” as it most always is! Whomever she was “You go girl!”
April 28th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
Looking for actors to particpate in a movie with you? My god!!! My dick stands at attention at the thought but you know, having watched you in action so many times I don’t know if I could ever please you! Love to try. I’d stick my head in your cunt so far I’d taste all of your inner girlie parts. And your asshole — well now, once I had my tongue in there I don’t believe it would ever be removed as your shitty asshole would be so — well shitty tasting, yum yum!! My tongue and your asshole — like a moth before a flame. Well, I guess I’ll have to keep dreamin’ — really fuckin’ wet dreams at that!!!!
April 29th, 2009 at 8:52 am
Giorgio and Vlad i agree with u guys could be a Reason!
At chris X did u read the Blog?????
Kiss annette
April 29th, 2009 at 5:15 pm
Vlad, your comments are always quite deep. You state that “the right acceptance to normality should not be established by conformity…” I agree as I’ve never conformed to anything in my life! But I will tell you that it (nonconformity) carries with it a heavy burden even in a society such as the US which prides itself on its openess. I’ve been ostracized from practically all areas of life: family — the one I was brought up in as well as the one I helped create, that is the ex, kids, etc. — social and political establishments, just about everywhere. People don’t like to have their ideas challenged and will fight you every step of the way to try and make you conform. Like I say, I’ve felt it all my life and it can thrust you into a state of melancholy if you’re not careful. Sometimes I’ve actually felt like I was at the breaking point but then I have to reassure myself that what society deems “normal” is really just the collective ideas of those in power — the shapers of the mass mind. You somehow must rise above it. The jist of your statement I think is accurate!
April 30th, 2009 at 1:23 am
I would love to see you Sub and Dom a Girl Annette with lots of licking, sucking and tongue fucking her asshole deep…and pissing in each others mouths with swallowing.
April 30th, 2009 at 4:54 am
also there are Girls that only like to be dominated by Girls too.
April 30th, 2009 at 6:47 pm
man piss but never girl piss? is there an estrogen thing?
May 1st, 2009 at 2:55 am
My good friend Edie is clearly a dominietix. She only calls me when she and her boyfriend get into a fight (just about every other day) and she needs to have her fuck-holes pleasured. She’s also a nymph so she’s never satisfied. But she’s a tough broad as she tells you/me right out “step out of line and I’ll bite your fuckin’ dick off.” Oh, and I believe her too, she’s that fuckin’ nuts! But truthfully, I enjoy a woman who doesn’t take any shit from a guy, after all who do we dickheads think we are pushin’ our women around? I love to see them fight back!
I want to fuck that lovely little British babe, Amy Winehouse. She’s a take-no-shit kinda girl. Unfortunately, last I knew she was an alcoholic and a crackhead. She wrote a song where she sings: “they tried to make me go to rehab but I said NO, NO, NO!” I thought Amy, Amy, Amy. Then I saw that there is a song on her album titled Amy Amy Amy. I thought “Holy shit, now I KNOW WE’RE ALL INTERCONNECTED.” Well, I hope she gets her act together as she’s real talented and a real nice lookin’ piece of ass. She’s a pretty girl and I’d love to bang her!!
May 1st, 2009 at 10:22 am
Ola Anna.
Today the work day ( 1 MAY) ALL the best for you and all lovers.All the best.
PD.Today your ass and mouth be quiet;Adios.
May 1st, 2009 at 12:31 pm
Yes, today is Mayday! All European as well as other industrialized countries celebrate this in solidarity with the brutal Haymarket Square and other working class slaughters that took place here in the US in the 19th century. The US unfortunately, sets this day aside as “Law and Oder Day.” Let’s you know where their sympathies lie.
May 1st, 2009 at 5:23 pm
Valerie Salanes, perhaps radical feminism’s most notorious adherent, published a book in the late sixties titled S.C.U.M. — Society For Cutting Up Men. She was perhaps most known for having shot Andy Warhol for his refusing to use her script for a play. Luckily Warhol survived, having been shot twice. Not sure where Valerie is today — perhaps dead as some probably wish.
May 2nd, 2009 at 2:48 pm
Annette, it just dawned on me, you wouldn’t happen to be related — perhaps distantly — to Stephen Shwartz who was an aqauintance of Beat poets Alan Ginsberg and Lawrence Ferlinghetti? The poets became familiar with Shwartz through one, Michael Savage — just curious.
May 2nd, 2009 at 10:02 pm
Hello Annette!
As a pornviewer I think it’s more sexy with a dominant male.It’s great seeing you and other sluts get manhandled spanked and slapped by strong wellhunged guys like Brandon Iron or Nacho Vidal
May 7th, 2009 at 1:14 pm
I agree with the statement of Lars Lennart to a degree. I, too enjoy watching women get — as he puts it “manhandled spanked and slapped by strong wellhunged guys…” I think it is great when the woman who is being “manhandled” is in total sync and is enjoying the situation. My only qualification to that statement is that — and I speak as a feminist who is fully behind women’s rights — if, as in some cases the woman is NOT enjoying the “manhandling” then the dude should respect her wishes and discontinue the act. I, also love to see women take the dominant position — Amber Rayne is a great case in point — she takes no shit from anyone and I love watching her perform. Bobbi Starr has also made some great points. She considers herself as a “pro-sex feminist.” She says she realizes that many view the porn industry as degrading to women — she’s quite right as many do feel that way, I have friends who can’t understand how I, as a feminist can be into porn — but she says she knows that she is always in total control and that she is doing it because she chooses to and that if at anytime she began to feel degraded she would exit the industry in a flash. She feels, as a feminist (and here is where I totally agree with her) that if men are allowed to have sex with a multitude of partners and not suffer any of society’s degradation then women should be alotted the same opportunities. I could not agree with her more! Bobbi, in my opinion is one of the most brilliant young girls I’ve had the pleasure to listen to — a highly intelligent and beautiful young girl!! Power to Women everywhere — you truly are “the other half of the sky!”
Woman, I can hardly express, my mixed emotions
At my thoughtlessness
After all I’m forever in your debt
And woman, I will try to express
My inner feeling and thankfulness
For showing me the meaning of success.
Woman, I know you understand
The little child inside the man
Please remember my life is in your hands
And woman, hold me close to your heart
However distant don’t keep us apart
After all it is written in the stars.
Woman, please let me explain
I never meant to cause you sorrow or pain
So let me tell you again and again and again
I love you now and forever
I love you now and forever.
by John Lennon 1980 recorded 4 months before his tragic murder in NYC on Dec. 8, 1980.
May 9th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
I saw a good movie recently which at first might seem paradoxical but not really when you check it out. The chick was clearly the dominate one even though the dude had the physical strength. She was sort of like the director as he fucked her. She would say “OK, now pull my fuckin’ hair — harder, slap my face etc…” He, of course obliged to her every whim thereby making her most happy! I really enjoyed this as this is what the young girl wanted — it defintely pleased her — and he was in no way taking advantage of her but trying his best to please her — which he clearly did!!! It was great!
May 11th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
As the title of the blog is “Sub Porn – Differences Between Girls and Men” I’m just thinking why on Earth there is a lot less extreme BDSM with men as subs?! There are so many ladies manhandled by studs or by other ladies in a large variety of ways and using many techniques and BDSM tools, but when looking at men in submissive situations things tend to get less impressive. The male body has as many interesting areas and offeres as many nice angles and opportunities for abuse and sweet hornyness inflicting torture as the female body. Also, there are almost no trannies fairly abussed! Does men not have the strength of character to enjoy being submissive? Are they backed off from enjoying the endorphins resulted from complete and absolute submission by socially imposed cultural norms? Personally, I find the submissive state a lot more rewarding in terms of absolute pleasure but the strongest cum shots came after being on a dominant side even if the responsability assumed shaded the pleasure.
Just my opinions and angsts, comrades. May The Schwarz-inflicted Pleasure be with you!
May 11th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
Vlad, I think you have answered your own question within your own statement. Question: “do not men have the strength of character to enjoy being submissive?” I believe they are indeed “backed off from enjoying the endorphins resulted from complete and absolute submission by SOCIALLY IMPOSED CULTURAL NORMS (my emphasis).” So I think you have already hammered out the answer within your own statement — an excellent observation I might add. It goes to show just how powerful these “socially imposed cultural norms” are, that despite the enormous “high” one gets from the human brains ability to produce its own opium-like substances, these socially imposed norms seem to win out. Take homosexuality itself and the enormous amount of popular struggle within the gay/lesbian community to overcome again “socially imposed norms” and be able to win the freedoms that they are now enjoying — for instance the fact that so many states within the US are now allowing gays to marry. Gays still have a long way to go to reach total equality but they have made enormous steps within my life time. Hell, I remember not long ago, perhaps 25 or 30 years ago, people actually beieved (because they had been programed to believe) that homosexuality was a result of mental illness. Then, of course organized religion has done a terrible diservice through its ability to persuade people of the so-called “immorality” of such activity. Well, thankfully through the struggles of gay people the larger community is beginning to see the light — there is still a long way to go as tremendous homophobia still exists. You have great insight and provoke great conversation. Thanks for getting my mind rolling as I was beginning to nod out!!
May 11th, 2009 at 10:13 pm
I would loooooove to be roughed up by you!
May 12th, 2009 at 5:08 am
It would be great if Sinead’s open proposal will not be free of pornographic consequences which due to the stars involved I’m sure would be a state of the art production. Many of us will enjoy it for sure!
I think we have to thank for our hard gained freedom to all those individuals who found the inner strength to stand for their opinions especially along the last two millenium no matter what their sexual preferences were (bi, gay, straight, etc). We should not underestimate the power of collective neurosis which may impose horrific actions even to the best of us.
We are most lucky to have been chalenged to roll our minds by The One And Only Schwarz – the object of our not only sexual but also intelectuals desires.
Hugs for you all, lustful comrades!
May 12th, 2009 at 10:49 am
Vlad, your last statement regarding “our minds” being challenged to roll by “THE ONE AND ONLY SHWARTZ – the object of our not only sexual but also intellctual desires.” I couldn’t agree more. I’m confused as to the — and forgive my ignorance — Sinead proposal. First, I’m not sure who he or she (I suppose the name Sinead could be either male or female though the only one I’m familiar with is Sinead O’Conner, the musician who I love, by the way) is directing the proposal to. Second, your statement that “if the open proposal will not be free of pornagraphic which due to the stars involved I’m sure would be a state of the art production.” Who are “the stars involved” that you refer to? And Sinead who are you directing your proposal to? I’m very curious and am not frightened or will not be taken aback by your answer. I think that if your proposal is toward Vlad then, of course that would be totalty up to Vlad as to how he responds — his response already lies I believe, in the first sentence of his statement. If it is directed towards me — and I’m not under any delusion that it is — you should know that I’m 100 per cent straight yet COMPLETELY UNHOMOPHOBIC (THAT I can’t stress enough) if you’re a male. Now if you’re a woman, now that is an entirely different “ball” game and would love to hear more from you — I’m very inquisitive!!!
PEACE AND LOVE TO ALL — WE’RE ALL (THE HUMAN RACE, INTERCONNECTED) AND AS 60S ICON WAVY GRAVY PUT IT SO CORRECTLY “WE ARE ALL THE SAME PERSON TRYING TO SHAKE HANDS WITH OURSELF.” WELL PUT WAVY AND I LOVE YOUR ICE CREAM FLAVOR!!! THANKS TO BEN COHEN AND JERRY GREENFIELD FOR HAVING PRODUCED SUCH A TASTY DESERT!!
May 12th, 2009 at 11:17 am
ps, As an aside, Wavy (you probably won’t read this) I’m thinking quite seriously of joining the HOG FARM COMMUNE as I think this would be a most enlightening experience. What, for all the good you and the Hog Farmers have done for the homeless, children suffering from fatal illnesses etc… through the SEVA FOUNDATION and the Dead’s REX FOUNDATION, over the past 40 yrs. I would be most honored to participate. Your books are a great inspiration particularly “SOMETHING GOOD FOR A CHANGE: RANDOM NOTES ON PEACE THROUGH LIVING” You are indeed correct that “Peace is not the way, THE WAY is PEACE.” Keep up your great work!!
May 12th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
@sinead, perhaps your comment on being “roughed up” is directed towards Annette. Well, let me just say I would also have GREAT PLEASURE in being roughed up by one so sexually charged. Annette is like a million volt lightening bolt! The only other two sweet girls in the industry that I know of with such sexually charged neuro-systems are Bobbi Starr and Amber Rayne — two gorgeous and very unique girls. That’s why I’d love so very much to see the three of them together in a flick — of this I’m dead serious. The transformation from simple everyday girl-on-girl flicks would be trancended to the greatest heights of lesbian pleasure. Annette, please do take this proposal seriously as I can think of no other girls who could cum close to matching you. I hold the three of you in the highest regard!!
May 12th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
A simple click on Sinead name will offer you the answers you want as you will be directed towards: http://www.babysinead.com/ blog. Also, there is a shortcut on the left side of Home page of this blog (check it carefully as there might be many other interesting links), in Friend Blogs: Baby Sinead. I think you will be pleasantly surprised and your fantasies may get wild at the thought of Schwarz vs Sinead wild sex action. The main problem in pornstars dream couples (or groups) would be more about compatible characthers and feelings of kinship than about appearance, at least in my opinion. So, choose wisely, my dear perv comrades!
May 12th, 2009 at 2:06 pm
@Vlad, thanks so much for supplying the website above. That was most interesting, the chick was gorgeous beyond belief — is that sinead? god I’d love a piece of her! What beautiful eyes — I’m always going on about a woman’s eyes as it is like lookin’ into the very depths of their innermost being. Exactly why I’m always commenting on how beautiful Annette’s eyes are. Also, whomever supplied the music for that short video should be commended as it set the tone for the flick perfectly. However, I could not find anything on this home page titled “Friend Blog: Baby Sinead” I’ll keep checking in hopes of finding it and thanks for the great info!!
May 13th, 2009 at 10:32 am
Vlad, in the above site that you posted, is there a trick to submitting a comment? I’ve tried to comment on what is there at the site today to no avail. By the way, I did see your comment!
May 13th, 2009 at 10:36 am
Vlad, disregard that last statement as it apparently takes a few moments for your comment to register — not that I had anything overly important to say.
May 31st, 2009 at 9:22 pm
Annette i have almost all of your movies. im into your G/G rough sex domination scenes more than anything. seeing you dominate or be dominated by another woman is a real turnon.i loved watchingyou get dominated by Sandra Romain in slutwoman. and i loved watching you dominate Hannah west in Jake Malone’s Bitchcraft.i want to see you come back and do more G/G domination scenes Annette. you are flatout unreal.
July 20th, 2009 at 12:33 am
Good question Annette, but maybe a man can’t give the answer, since it’s always difficult to know what girls think, like, want, etc.
For me I can say, that I like SM plays, but I refuse to play the sub part. I just like to play the dominant part. Also, I wouldn’t enjoy to have a male sub.
So, maybe some girls are just 100% straight and have no pleasure on sexual plays with girls, but maybe I am wrong in that regard, since girls are much more open minded in touching the same gender.
Anyway, maybe it just fit there fantasies if the Maerchenprinz or the Sado-Master is a girl….
June 29th, 2010 at 1:11 am
body odor is nasty that is why i always take a bath twice a day.,*`