Comments on: Is this the dark side of porn? http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/ Annette Schwarz's personal Blog Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:43:19 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: markrudder http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-5028 markrudder Mon, 26 Oct 2009 17:38:09 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-5028 @Amy Of course life is meant to be ENJOYED AND LIVED -- what planet are you on? And just where the hell have you been? You stated that you had emailed me and of course, as I said, I never received anything. I'm beginning to think you're a bag of hot air -- and that's putting it nicely! @Amy Of course life is meant to be ENJOYED AND LIVED — what planet are you on? And just where the hell have you been? You stated that you had emailed me and of course, as I said, I never received anything. I’m beginning to think you’re a bag of hot air — and that’s putting it nicely!

]]> By: markrudder http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-5027 markrudder Mon, 26 Oct 2009 17:31:46 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-5027 Wow, SatanicMastermind, that was a long comment --and I certainly don't mind even if I disagree. I enjoyed reading it but... -- I get accused of writing long comments! Incredible!! I'm glad someone else dares write out their thoughts with such complexity. Again, I might not agree but that's not the point, the point is I get accused of writing long comments simply due to the content of my posts. Wow, SatanicMastermind, that was a long comment –and I certainly don’t mind even if I disagree. I enjoyed reading it but… — I get accused of writing long comments! Incredible!! I’m glad someone else dares write out their thoughts with such complexity. Again, I might not agree but that’s not the point, the point is I get accused of writing long comments simply due to the content of my posts.

]]> By: Azathoth http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-5025 Azathoth Sun, 25 Oct 2009 22:38:26 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-5025 Everything to excess. Life is what you make of it, no? It can be sad--"Life is not meant to be enjoyed, it is meant to be lived." Or it can be an endless panoply of delight. You were given flesh...revel in it. Take it to the pinnacles of experience--and hurl it into the abysses of depravity, as long as it is your will that it be done. You were given emotion, feeling. The ability to be moved. Why think life should be quiet stillness that you wander through without using this? Enjoy life, loathe live, but FEEL your life. Because without feeling you are less than dead. Women are princesses, to be cared for, cherished and treasured....and they are animals, meat to be used, to be abused and abased just like men, save that princes might be a better term, no? Annette does not give her heart here--at least, not any part of it that she does not wish to. She is enjoying her pornstar celebrity--and tantalizing her fans. Even the crazies who profess 'love' to the construct she lets hem see. And will they care when she is old, and no longer the star of their fantasies, who can tell? Fame is fleeting....but Betty Page was idolized by her fans long after she denounced them and fled bact into the stifling love of the One God and his son--even in her dotage they tried to honor and cherish her....and all they had were old films and photos. So Annette may have someone there to hold her hand as she breathes her last to tell her she's beautiful, to swaddle her in the love and lust she generated so happily. Everything to excess. Life is what you make of it, no?

It can be sad–”Life is not meant to be enjoyed, it is meant to be lived.”

Or it can be an endless panoply of delight.

You were given flesh…revel in it. Take it to the pinnacles of experience–and hurl it into the abysses of depravity, as long as it is your will that it be done.

You were given emotion, feeling. The ability to be moved. Why think life should be quiet stillness that you wander through without using this? Enjoy life, loathe live, but FEEL your life. Because without feeling you are less than dead.

Women are princesses, to be cared for, cherished and treasured….and they are animals, meat to be used, to be abused and abased

just like men, save that princes might be a better term, no?

Annette does not give her heart here–at least, not any part of it that she does not wish to. She is enjoying her pornstar celebrity–and tantalizing her fans.

Even the crazies who profess ‘love’ to the construct she lets hem see.

And will they care when she is old, and no longer the star of their fantasies, who can tell? Fame is fleeting….but Betty Page was idolized by her fans long after she denounced them and fled bact into the stifling love of the One God and his son–even in her dotage they tried to honor and cherish her….and all they had were old films and photos.

So Annette may have someone there to hold her hand as she breathes her last to tell her she’s beautiful, to swaddle her in the love and lust she generated so happily.

]]> By: asdadasd http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-5021 asdadasd Sat, 24 Oct 2009 23:18:07 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-5021 Uff people, stop kissing the whore's ass, she won't sleep with any of you. We all like to wank to her videos but doesn't make her worthy of any respect. I don't know if she had or had not a fucked up childhood but she surely has a very fucked up adulthood, she get pissed on the face on a regular basis. Would you like your daughter/mother/sister to do this kind of things? Uff people, stop kissing the whore’s ass, she won’t sleep with any of you.

We all like to wank to her videos but doesn’t make her worthy of any respect.

I don’t know if she had or had not a fucked up childhood but she surely has a very fucked up adulthood, she get pissed on the face on a regular basis. Would you like your daughter/mother/sister to do this kind of things?

]]> By: Amy http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-2/#comment-4691 Amy Sat, 26 Sep 2009 23:56:16 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-4691 SatanicMastermind -- Thanks for your taking the time to write all of that out. I must say, though, I think reality, real true living, is much better than any fantasy world, porn world, video game world, etc. Life is not meant to be enjoyed, it is meant to be lived. We lose life in pleasure. SatanicMastermind — Thanks for your taking the time to write all of that out. I must say, though, I think reality, real true living, is much better than any fantasy world, porn world, video game world, etc.

Life is not meant to be enjoyed, it is meant to be lived.

We lose life in pleasure.

]]> By: SatanicMastermind http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-4679 SatanicMastermind Fri, 25 Sep 2009 08:29:29 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-4679 HI! I can't believe to find this awesome discussion here. In fact its right to a very high philosophical human discussion! This should be mainstream! I've always enjoyed discussion on the 'dark desires' of man. People that live to fulfill their most animalistic desires through body sensation are like heroes. For the masses this is impossible... People have all these social rules for relationships. FUCK! How many times did you have to go through so much bullshit to date a girl just because you had a huge hard-on for her! And maybe at the end, you didn't even like her! But how happy you would've been fucking her, and satisfying that urge! Man, the world would be a better place! In fact, it comes to the point that people are not able to satisfy themselves sexually because they don't know how to explore their instinctual sex drives. And all this social drama and rules many times lead to bullshit relationships and no one is happy! I think that's why porn is so huge, and so popular. In porn, people commit acts of sex completely derived out of intense sexual fantasies. The sex acts that happen in porn; in 'real life' can usually only happen between a couple that has a lot of trust within each other, and maybe a clever guy and a drunken girl (hehe). Ok, it's not impossible, but you get the point. The fantasies in porn are like the fantasies in videogames... The user will never be able to go out and kill Japanese Soldiers in WWII, but damn he can go out and buy a game and do it! Porn can show us the extreme of the human sex drive. Of course there is no 'love'! Who is looking for love in porn?! Fucking no one! One looks at porn to satisfy a primarily sexual desire. Look at male actors in porn.. their faces show that animal sex drive.. they don't have tender faces that say "I love you honey". Now, onto the more confusing, gray arena of mind, where things get fun. Our minds read into imagery and symbolism and behaviors like sponges. In this day and age, we are bombarded left to right with all kinds of visual, ideological and sensory stimuli - It's easy to suddenly lose track of who you are and find yourself immersed in an artifically created environment not suited for who you are. On the one side, people tell us about love (at least their version of it), tell us about morals, and tell us about what it means to be happy... on the other side, people are publicizing complete sexual debauchery, extreme graphic violence, and musical atrophy (SatanicMastermind likes!) and when you put everything together in your mind it can be confusing. On the one side, you think you need to find a girl to have a happy loving life full of tenderness and caring - on the other hand, you have these imagery of people that have gone to the extreme to engage in sexual activity. And you're left with 'what the fuck?'. Well. That's the BEAUTY of it all! Each person, each person in this planet has something special laid out for them - something unique. That is their body and their mind and their unique historical existence! All those things combined make people see life differently, through a different lens, different colors... There shouldn't be a set 'guideline' for everybody, enforcing guidelines has always resulted in hate and more nastiness. If someone thinks that sex has to come with care and meaningful relationship that's totally FINE! That's great! But whatever you believe in you have to have an unwavering spirit in your beliefs. If someone that hates what Annette does and comes here to say "Hey, what the fuck?" then that person is not 100% sure of his/her beliefs. I don't need to go to a christian website and start crap just because I think their religion is bullshit. I don't care!!! I'm fine with my beliefs and it's not up to me to try to change anybody's version of happiness. Now. What are we going to do about it? We just need to build up a better criteria of things, and more understanding. I personally don't like Annette's way of doing porn, I kinda cringe at some of that stuff, and I wonder if she's Ok! But I guess she's fine, it's just really not my thing. I guess I'm big fan of just regular fucking in my porn... But hey, I respect her work. I can go on forever but I guess my main thing is that not everything is for everybody. And not being sure of one's beliefs and path in life leads us to start criticizing whatever makes us doubt our path. I also have to say as another final statement that people that fill their minds with hate and violence, and distorted imagery of reality exist in this world. Crimes against women many times have been sexually motivated. Women are raped everyday - killed everyday on sexually motivated reasons. This is pathetic. My only thing against porn would have to do with this. Some people can't distinguish boundaries between what they see on their computer screen and reality. But this not only happens with porn, whatever kind of fantasy creation we people create to explore our existence can be taken literally by many with poor criteria of what's real or not. But what can we do about these fucking idiots? They will always exist. Idiots that are inspired to kill on heavy metal and idiotic video-games will exist as long as the plastic consumerist culture exist. As well as porn inspired sex-offenders that can't ever actually have a real relationship. This people will exist, as long as civilization offers so much fantasy. Thank you if you read this long. HI! I can’t believe to find this awesome discussion here. In fact its right to a very high philosophical human discussion! This should be mainstream! I’ve always enjoyed discussion on the ‘dark desires’ of man. People that live to fulfill their most animalistic desires through body sensation are like heroes. For the masses this is impossible… People have all these social rules for relationships. FUCK! How many times did you have to go through so much bullshit to date a girl just because you had a huge hard-on for her! And maybe at the end, you didn’t even like her! But how happy you would’ve been fucking her, and satisfying that urge! Man, the world would be a better place! In fact, it comes to the point that people are not able to satisfy themselves sexually because they don’t know how to explore their instinctual sex drives. And all this social drama and rules many times lead to bullshit relationships and no one is happy! I think that’s why porn is so huge, and so popular. In porn, people commit acts of sex completely derived out of intense sexual fantasies. The sex acts that happen in porn; in ‘real life’ can usually only happen between a couple that has a lot of trust within each other, and maybe a clever guy and a drunken girl (hehe). Ok, it’s not impossible, but you get the point. The fantasies in porn are like the fantasies in videogames… The user will never be able to go out and kill Japanese Soldiers in WWII, but damn he can go out and buy a game and do it! Porn can show us the extreme of the human sex drive. Of course there is no ‘love’! Who is looking for love in porn?! Fucking no one! One looks at porn to satisfy a primarily sexual desire. Look at male actors in porn.. their faces show that animal sex drive.. they don’t have tender faces that say “I love you honey”.
Now, onto the more confusing, gray arena of mind, where things get fun. Our minds read into imagery and symbolism and behaviors like sponges. In this day and age, we are bombarded left to right with all kinds of visual, ideological and sensory stimuli – It’s easy to suddenly lose track of who you are and find yourself immersed in an artifically created environment not suited for who you are. On the one side, people tell us about love (at least their version of it), tell us about morals, and tell us about what it means to be happy… on the other side, people are publicizing complete sexual debauchery, extreme graphic violence, and musical atrophy (SatanicMastermind likes!) and when you put everything together in your mind it can be confusing. On the one side, you think you need to find a girl to have a happy loving life full of tenderness and caring – on the other hand, you have these imagery of people that have gone to the extreme to engage in sexual activity. And you’re left with ‘what the fuck?’. Well. That’s the BEAUTY of it all! Each person, each person in this planet has something special laid out for them – something unique. That is their body and their mind and their unique historical existence! All those things combined make people see life differently, through a different lens, different colors… There shouldn’t be a set ‘guideline’ for everybody, enforcing guidelines has always resulted in hate and more nastiness. If someone thinks that sex has to come with care and meaningful relationship that’s totally FINE! That’s great! But whatever you believe in you have to have an unwavering spirit in your beliefs. If someone that hates what Annette does and comes here to say “Hey, what the fuck?” then that person is not 100% sure of his/her beliefs. I don’t need to go to a christian website and start crap just because I think their religion is bullshit. I don’t care!!! I’m fine with my beliefs and it’s not up to me to try to change anybody’s version of happiness.
Now. What are we going to do about it? We just need to build up a better criteria of things, and more understanding. I personally don’t like Annette’s way of doing porn, I kinda cringe at some of that stuff, and I wonder if she’s Ok! But I guess she’s fine, it’s just really not my thing. I guess I’m big fan of just regular fucking in my porn… But hey, I respect her work.
I can go on forever but I guess my main thing is that not everything is for everybody. And not being sure of one’s beliefs and path in life leads us to start criticizing whatever makes us doubt our path.
I also have to say as another final statement that people that fill their minds with hate and violence, and distorted imagery of reality exist in this world. Crimes against women many times have been sexually motivated. Women are raped everyday – killed everyday on sexually motivated reasons. This is pathetic. My only thing against porn would have to do with this. Some people can’t distinguish boundaries between what they see on their computer screen and reality. But this not only happens with porn, whatever kind of fantasy creation we people create to explore our existence can be taken literally by many with poor criteria of what’s real or not. But what can we do about these fucking idiots? They will always exist. Idiots that are inspired to kill on heavy metal and idiotic video-games will exist as long as the plastic consumerist culture exist. As well as porn inspired sex-offenders that can’t ever actually have a real relationship. This people will exist, as long as civilization offers so much fantasy.
Thank you if you read this long.

]]> By: markrudder http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-4598 markrudder Wed, 16 Sep 2009 18:38:45 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-4598 @Amy, I believe the email address is shown above -- right next to it, it states "your comment is awaiting moderation." Now I'm not at all sure how this works so perhaps I can see this statement but others can't. That I don't know. If that be the case, (that it isn't visible to anyone else) I understand why. Suffice it to say, some rather harsh and nasty words were stated some months back between myself and another commentator. I let my temper get the best of me and blew off at someone who I'll let remain unnamed. This put Annette in a very difficult position. I'm sure she had to question whether or not to allow this kind of thing to remain in full sight on the world wide web. She chose to do the proper thing I believe, and had all of this nasty stuff removed (love her to death). I honor her decision and hold no grudges as she is a wonderful person and I hold myself totally responsible even in light of the fact that many of the statements to which I reacted were directed at her. The most vile stuff you can imagine were hurled her way and I simply lost it. You learn from your mistakes and I now would NEVER allow myself to explode in that fashion again. I have appologized to Annette for this and hope she accepts as she is a wonderul, very beautiful young woman. If indeed, you can see the email address do not hesitate to write. Otherwise we'll let it go at that. Even if you were to email me I'd ask that you keep anything I had to state regarding this mess, confidential. Thanks again for your patients and understanding. @Amy, I believe the email address is shown above — right next to it, it states “your comment is awaiting moderation.” Now I’m not at all sure how this works so perhaps I can see this statement but others can’t. That I don’t know. If that be the case, (that it isn’t visible to anyone else) I understand why.

Suffice it to say, some rather harsh and nasty words were stated some months back between myself and another commentator. I let my temper get the best of me and blew off at someone who I’ll let remain unnamed.

This put Annette in a very difficult position. I’m sure she had to question whether or not to allow this kind of thing to remain in full sight on the world wide web. She chose to do the proper thing I believe, and had all of this nasty stuff removed (love her to death). I honor her decision and hold no grudges as she is a wonderful person and I hold myself totally responsible even in light of the fact that many of the statements to which I reacted were directed at her. The most vile stuff you can imagine were hurled her way and I simply lost it. You learn from your mistakes and I now would NEVER allow myself to explode in that fashion again. I have appologized to Annette for this and hope she accepts as she is a wonderul, very beautiful young woman.

If indeed, you can see the email address do not hesitate to write. Otherwise we’ll let it go at that. Even if you were to email me I’d ask that you keep anything I had to state regarding this mess, confidential. Thanks again for your patients and understanding.

]]> By: Amy http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-4594 Amy Wed, 16 Sep 2009 13:18:06 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-4594 Mark, I don't know your email... hope everything's okay with you. Mark, I don’t know your email… hope everything’s okay with you.

]]> By: markrudder http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-4593 markrudder Wed, 16 Sep 2009 13:08:55 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-4593 @amy, feel free to email me and we can discuss it. It's a long story -- something I'm not very proud of. It entails me losing my temper when I should have remained calm but didn't. Hope to hear from you. @amy, feel free to email me and we can discuss it. It’s a long story — something I’m not very proud of. It entails me losing my temper when I should have remained calm but didn’t. Hope to hear from you.

]]> By: Amy http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/08/29/is-this-the-dark-side-of-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-4587 Amy Tue, 15 Sep 2009 22:46:54 +0000 http://blog.totallyannette.com/?p=864#comment-4587 Mark, what happened? Confused... Tyler... you can email me if you want. I have no problem with that. It just seems like you are angry and really don't want to talk to me. So I didn't think you'd actually want to email me. But sure. I don't mind that at all. I am, however, finished debating on Annette's blog. I really don't see why we should continue to do that. Mark, what happened? Confused…

Tyler… you can email me if you want. I have no problem with that. It just seems like you are angry and really don’t want to talk to me. So I didn’t think you’d actually want to email me. But sure. I don’t mind that at all.

I am, however, finished debating on Annette’s blog. I really don’t see why we should continue to do that.

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