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Why a lot of girls talk bad after doing porn?

By Annette Schwarz | March 4, 2011

I always wonder why so many girls after quitting porn feel guilty or make porn look like their biggest mistake in their life.
I see many interviews with girls getting into the devilish hands of Talkshow masters, TV-Show priests where they confess their sins. Mhmmm, why should porn be a sin? Sadly many people think like that, and ok everyone has there own ethnic rules but you do not need to make a Exorcism. That is a little over the top. The sad thing is, those girls also really start to believe that they did something horrible wrong. It is not like you killed someone, you did something natural and got paid for it. Nothing to be ashamed of at all, you can be proud that you did that, what everyone desires to do!
Why you think so many girls start to feel so guilty after porn?
I think maybe they are too young when they get into porn. You do not really think about how your life will be after, what will change in your life just of because of your job decision!
I luckily never fell in this kind of cris, i would always decide the same way.
But you sure need to think careful before entering in porn!

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74 Responses to “Why a lot of girls talk bad after doing porn?”

  1. Arthur Says:
    March 4th, 2011 at 10:40 am

    Congratulation!!! That´s the biggest reason why I admire you. Never deny what you have done, like you said it´s wasn´t wrong. Girls do that ´cause they know society blame pornografy, so show some regret, especially religion regret, makes them feels acceptable in society again.

    Kisses, Arthur

  2. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 4th, 2011 at 1:17 pm

    I read interviews of ex-porn stars and almost all of them says that they regret with their decision. It humiliates them and makes them feels inferior with other people. I think porn is not sin as what they believe because it will not hurt anyone and they will not be infected with disease. It is one of the profession which should be respected and you got paid for it. Porn business involves billions of dollars of investments by porn companies. I have learned all fucking techniques by watching porn and it change my sex life. Porn girls will be able to show off their beautiful naked body to the world which I think is great feelings for them.
    What I think that many porn girls feels guilty after porn?
    I think maybe its because of influence or feedback from the public which gives them very bad impressions. They feels that their work as porn girl are not being appreciated by the public or government like most ex-sports person or politicians. I think those girls must have feelings like what they eat everyday. You will forget about your food during lunch or breakfast which you had few days ago. Those girls will have to forget about their life in porn if they feels guilty and starts another new life. Forget about what happens yesterday because you may not have the ability to change it.

  3. alexander Says:
    March 4th, 2011 at 1:43 pm

    Wow! your body and energy is intense, keep representing for the beautful freaky european mami’s in the world! i love you girl! lol..check out my blog,

    http://artontherise11.blogspot.com/2011/02/work-from-2010-11.html

  4. Vlad Says:
    March 4th, 2011 at 1:52 pm

    Annette, do you realize that in fact You are asking “Why there are a lot of stupid girls?” :D ? It is more about human evolution and bad selection in the last 10000 to 12000 years than anything else :)

  5. mmmzts Says:
    March 4th, 2011 at 8:09 pm

    Don’t be so sure that your point of view keeps up for life. You might be thinking different 15 years from now in retrospect.

  6. heureka Says:
    March 4th, 2011 at 11:06 pm

    dein größter fehler wäre folgender:
    “ich würde niemals pornos drehen” ;-)
    ich mißbrauche das thema aber jetzt einmal, sorry!
    annette, mach mir doch einmal bitte den dr. sommer.
    wie verkrafte ich eigentlich meine obsessionen und gehe damit um?
    verliebt in einen pornostar????
    sobald ich deine filme sehe überkommt mich eine wirklich tiefe sehnsucht. und es dreht sich alles um die entscheidende frage: wie kann ich meinen “liebsten filmstar” einmal persönlich treffen?
    naja, provokante frage….aber, mußte mal raus.
    grüße und ….. viel spaß beim momentanen faschingstreiben.
    heu

  7. victor Says:
    March 4th, 2011 at 11:20 pm

    yes, I think you’re right it’s a shame that maybe some people who have participated in the porn industry dazzle them fame and money and depues feel it is no longer a big deal, but fortunately for us there are actresses like you who are convinced that porn can be even a lifestyle
    in which even those who consume these films also are part of it, albeit more passive. If those people who now regret having belonged to the porn industry, they have very firm ideas about what they want in life, maybe his life will repent of everything you do
    hopefully find their vocation before its life prevents them from pursuing what they love. P. S. you have a beautiful face, your body and not speak, those made to delight us pornofilos (for porn addicts) kisses … where you want

  8. Chris Wise Says:
    March 5th, 2011 at 6:02 am

    Unfortunetly pornstars who leave the industry who end up thinking that what they did was sinning have bought into the prude nature of religion as dominated by men that want to control women. That’s why I love strong women that stand proud, who love dirty nasty sex without shame & who refused to be controlled.
    It’s why I love Annette Schwarz! XXX

  9. Wilfried Says:
    March 7th, 2011 at 2:40 am

    To me, doing porn is like getting a tattoo… It’s for life! So, beware.

  10. Karl Says:
    March 7th, 2011 at 8:49 pm

    I dont think its very strange that many women feels like that way after a porn career,they wouldnt really say it during it,in scare of hurting their ongoing career so they do it afterwards, some probably may get more or less coerced into into it,some lured by the tempting money, not so many ways to “easily” make big money for many young women,especially those with no education,so they get tempted,and later find it its not so good as it sounded.

    Noone can seriously be proud to have a porn working relative,its not something these people brag about outside the work,or their parents,siblings etc,who would?,its not something that the world look to as a respectable profession. Once in porn, you are branded forever, forever on internet,forever can your children,parents, relatives,any people see you online at any time at the most revealing positions. How fun is that? How can you expect to ever have a regular job after that outside porn? Few can at least,and many doors are for sure closed for them.

    To fight that stigma,not to be associated with it, some ex porn stars may try to critize it to easier blend back in again,though its more or less futile, I think.

    Thats probably some reasons.

  11. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 8th, 2011 at 3:49 am

    I think those girls feels the ‘intense heat’ and being embarrassed or hurt their feelings by the reactions from others like religious newspaper, religion organizations from churches, anti-porn associations or few government ministers who hate porn. For example few free porn sites on the internet apply more strict rules for their members and they will be banned from the sites if they break a simple rules. We also can’t see any free porn activities like few years back in many public chat rooms. These sites has blocked all porn activities from the chat rooms like free porn web cam or porn chats. The reason : Few people from this chat rooms creates child porn rooms and child porn activities which is a false statement. Almost everyday these people condemned their decision to enter porn business and also these girls do not have the appreciations from anyone. They will be forgotten porn stars after they quit porn for few years. These are few of the scenarios which makes them feels that they feels guilty of their participation in porn.

  12. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 10th, 2011 at 2:41 am

    I would like to know the actual reasons most retired porn actress feels that they had made wrong decision by becoming porn stars. Is it their biggest mistakes they have done in their entire life? These ex-porn stars confession and expose it publicly their sins and later feels guilty because they want to stop people or new girls who intends or interested in becoming porn star.As we all know that these ex-porn stars will not be able to go back to their old days and change their decisions when they are young. They did not go to court or jail or hurt someone when they becomes porn stars.
    Those actions by the ex-porn stars will gives bad effect to the porn business. Porn companies will suffer because they could not hire new porn girls. Since these ex-porn girls could not change their life as a porn star and now they intends to give very bad image to porn business. We will see that new porn girls will be scared to start their carrier in the porn business.
    I think their confession is not because of their real feelings of being guilty of their actions but because they are being paid less when they are porn stars. Its all because of money. If the porn companies pays them big amount of money then they will say that they are NOT feel guilty. Money plays big part in their confessions after they had retired.
    I think in future, 10 or 20 years from now, we will not able to see porn girls feels guilty after they had quit porn if the porn companies pays them big amount of MONEY. So if porn companies want to shut up the mouth of these ex-porn girls or they appreciate their life as porn girls then the porn companies will have to spend more money to all porn girls.
    Big Kiss.

  13. Kenneth Says:
    March 10th, 2011 at 6:14 pm

    Here you see a part of an interview where Belladonna is crying. She was abused in the porn world….what about you Annette????

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UriHw41mIAY&playnext=1&list=PL3DE676DED3697744

  14. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 11th, 2011 at 10:27 am

    I think Belladonna or other porn stars should prosecute those individuals who are responsible to abuse her or others in the porn world. Abuse in any manner or at any place is a very serious case and there should be trials in an open court like for the case of Max Hardcore alias Paul Little. Its no use of crying in you tube or somewhere else without any court appearance. This is a fake crying if Belladonna didn’t prosecute those individuals in court.
    I think its just for sympathy from the public from those porn stars who are crying for abuse or for other reasons.
    Miss Annette is always different from Belladonna or other porn stars where she will not have ‘fake crying’ to receive sympathy from the public. Miss Annette is very natural and I think no individuals have the ability to abuse her in any manner. Believe it or not, no one will see Miss Annette will cry in the real world and complaint that she was being abused in the porn world. As a conclusion : Belladonna only produce ‘fake crying’ and not real one because she is still in the porn world, produced and acting in many porn films.
    Big Kiss.

    Big Kiss.
    Big Kiss.

  15. Kenneth Says:
    March 11th, 2011 at 11:07 am

    Fake crying? come on!!! In the youtube clip she is fake crying? Just like you i am a great porn lover but saying that no pornstar is abused…I don’t agree with you. Lots of stars have been abused, open your eyes! Just like lots of stars have not been abused.

    The ones who have been abused had a lot of problems in their youth. You really think that there is not any chance that belladonna was abused because she is still in porn? What about the girls who have committed suicide like Anastasia Blue? It’s just like prostitution, it’s a strange world…

  16. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 12th, 2011 at 5:37 am

    Can you proof with statements from Belladonna (after 12 March 2011) that it is not ‘fake crying’? For sure the answer is no from you because you can’t get any statements or evidence from Belladonna or other porn stars that it is not fake.

    Do you have any answer to my statement that Belladonna have to prosecute and go to trial in court for those individuals who are responsible in the abuse case? The answer is also no from you.

    Why those porn girls still in the business if they feels that they are being abused? And you have no answer for this question. You know if Belladonna feels that she was abused, I think she have quit porn but that is not the case.

    Big Kiss.

  17. Kenneth Says:
    March 12th, 2011 at 7:19 am

    Sasha, i am really shocked. The way you talk is like a raper.

    I can ask you the same, Can you proof with statements from Belladonna that it is fake crying?
    It’s so difficult to understand why raped women are still in porn or prostitution. The victims are forced or feel forced to do the work.

    Most women are very afraid and that’s why they do not prosecute. We, men cannot understand what the human mind is like when it is traumatised.
    Sasha, you should have more respect for victims.

  18. pAUL Says:
    March 12th, 2011 at 12:19 pm

    I thing, a lot of womans feel guilty after sex even intimacy sex, its the same way in porn maybe, the people sometimes look bad to the womans who likes sex…
    But that not happen with mens isnt?

    By the way I FUCKING LOVE YOU ANNETTE.

  19. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 12th, 2011 at 4:10 pm

    That is your opinion; you are shocked with my comments, you say that I talk as a raper, etc. To your question : Nope I can’t, if you ask me whether I can proof with comments from Miss Belladonna that it is a fake crying.
    As the law says that sex in porn business is not rape; there will be prosecution by prosecutors in countries like USA if those actions (sex in porn) has been classified as rape even though those porn girls are afraid to prosecute.
    Why sex in porn films is not been classified as rape by the constitution or by law? Because rape is forced sex and sex in porn business is not forced, blah blah blah…
    As you said most women are afraid to prosecute; but can you give me the name of those porn girls who are afraid to prosecute? Of course no from you because you do not know their name and that opinion is only your imagination.
    Anyway I am Sashe and not Sasha.

  20. Maya Says:
    March 12th, 2011 at 7:19 pm

    Not being a prude, I love porn myself, but everyone knows the amount of shit behind it. Its real, folks, wake up! Ppl got used, abused and many times killed. Most of the time its like once ure in, u can never get out. U get the picture.

  21. Edgardo Says:
    March 12th, 2011 at 11:43 pm

    Very well, Annette !!

    Porn is not for everyone, that is true. In the regular, not porn, film industry many actors sofer personal crises too …
    Porn is hard, be aware…

    (And it´s because porn is not just a little thing that I think that Annette is really great !!)

  22. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 12:22 am

    I don’t agree when someone says people will get used or abused or killed or they can’t get out of porn or blah, blah blah…and the story continues with no endings. I think porn girls like Miss Annette Schwartz, Kelly Wells or Belladonna shoots scenes naturally, I mean their own way and not depends on other people’s instructions. The directors will provide them the story about the scenes and these porn girls will be acting on their own way and the camera man will have to shoot their natural abilities. I didn’t see any abused towards porn girls when I watch many porn scenes.
    I think porn is for everyone and not for certain groups. We will be able to enjoy watching porn to get our sex satisfactions to boost our sex life. Some people see porn in positive manner and some in negative because our body have positive and negative, we have good people and bad people or electric have positive and negative charge. Its the combination of both which determines the porn business in future.
    Big Kiss.

  23. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 4:23 am

    I think there is confusion to the public which is to classify sex in porn scenes is a rape, abuse, humiliate, torture, blah, blah blah…It is because no actions or prosecutions by the local authorities to those individuals or companies who produce the porn scenes through internet or porn films.
    It is not about the porn girls are afraid to report the abuse or porn addictions which prevents the local authorities to prosecute those individuals.
    Now many people says that porn girls are afraid but they don’t reveal their names and official comments that they are afraid. Its like I could say that I have invented a space shuttle which enable men to land in Neptune or Jupiter but I don’t show the shuttle.
    We as a human being should know how to differentiate between bad and good. For example we could use a plane to travel from one place to another or we can use it to hit the World Trade Center on Sept 11 2001 and more than 3000 people died. So our life will be happier if we see porn in positive way and miserable if we see it in negative way.
    Porn is ban or illegal in few countries because the government feels that the people’s mind of the countries is weak and also relates to religion issue with no evidence.
    Big Kiss.

  24. Vlad Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 5:26 am

    @Kenneth: “It’s just like prostitution, it’s a strange world…” – the entire human world is “strange”. For me, people who accept to spend their lives going to a “normal” job, and live like maggots in a farm, are very “strange”, too :( 7 billion people on the planet and still counting: that’s STRANGE! Nuclear power plants, animal cruelty, napalm, mass slaughter, ethnic clashes, genocide, etc – that is real STRANGE!

    Adult entertainment: it’s just as normal as the eating walnuts. The problems that infest the pornographic industry are the reflection of the problems in our society, not the other way around… Too bad people could not keep the misery and the evil out of their sexual life :( and now they are made to think that prostitution, porn and swinging are the source of the problems, not the other way around :(

    Sorry if my English is not good enough to express what I think… Maybe you got the point, anyway.

    May the Force be with you :D !

  25. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 5:59 am

    I don’t think that porn is like prostitution even though both of them involves sex. Prostitution does not involve any shootings or camera actions and we could not see their sex activities. Porn involves shootings, we could see the sex scenes and those performers are been paid for their performances by porn companies. Porn produce films like DVD but prostitution does produce nothing. Another one is prostitutes don’t usually swallow cum but we could see cum swallowing in porn. There are many differences between porn and prostitution.
    The world is not strange. We will die if it behaves strange. It turn around the sun 365 times and it turns itself 24 hours with no gas, fuel or energy. Human being is not strange if they have the ability to use their mind correctly at all time. Bad news or incidents will happened if we don’t use our mind correctly.

  26. Kenneth Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 6:47 am

    Sashe or who ever you are, i don’t think you wanna see the truth. I like porn too so i’m not against it.

    I’m not saying that every pornstar has been abused. That’s why i’m not saying that Annette has been abused. But the fact that not every female porn star is still is in this job, does not mean that they like their job. Come on, wake up you fucker! What you (Sashe) don’t know is that when you watch and masturbate on your favourite girl, you might watch a girl who is being raped. During the years porn has been going more rough and we know the scenes titled like “mouth rape” or “gag factor”. This is unnaturally, i can tell you women in general hate doing these scenes. To escape from the hard reality many porn stars use drugs.
    Sashe, you keep closing your eyes. Watch this video and maybe you are more convinced than:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0q_VGacfNk

  27. Vlad Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 7:44 am

    Kenneth, “the fact that not every female porn star is still is in this job, does not mean that they like their job” – this is absolutely true.

    But this is true about every other job: most people are driven into different jobs/life styles just to earn a living, despite the fact that they absolutely HATE what they are doing :( Overpopulation is to blame, more than anything else.

    Look, if those pornstars are so abused and “forced” into it, why on Earth they do not chose to remain a janitor, instead?! It’s GREED more than anything else, and I think we, the consumers, are not to be made responsible for their bad choices.

  28. Kenneth Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 8:19 am

    Vlad, how would you feel when you have a daughter and you see her sucking a guy which slaps her in the face very hard and grabbing her hairs in a way that she can hardly breath?

    Off course Annette will not say here the things she hates in the business! Why not? Because Annette is not selling herself and her products when she would say she feels abused sometimes.

    Too bad Annette herself is not reacting into this discussion. I am very interested in her point of view.

  29. Vlad Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 11:33 am

    If my daughter would have the orgasms of her life by doing this, I would have nothing against that! After all, I have my fair share of bizarre sex plays myself – in fact, some of them would make even our beloved Annette to think I am quite insane ;) !

    I think there were some posts about things Annette hates in the porn business, to.

    Maybe The Schwarz have something much better to do than argue with us all day long, don’t you think?!

  30. Kenneth Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 1:05 pm

    Lol! Are you in love with her? You will never meet or fuck her! Keep on dreaming man!

    Lol! you think she has orgasms while she is performing? Porn is an illusion made for and mostly made by man! Keep on dreaming man!

    Lol! People like Sashe think that abuse does not exist in the world of porn. Keep on dreaming man!

  31. Vlad Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 1:56 pm

    Yes, I like Annette very much :D . Even if I would meet her (who knows, Europe is a small continent :) ), I doubt she would recognize me and I am OK with that ;) .

    I am not ‘dreaming’, I am enjoying the show :D My erotic dreams are mostly fantasies that nobody put on stage yet, and by the way things are going in porn – they will never do :) .

    People are used and abused all over the world… I remembered an old song: “Everybody’s looking for something/Some of them want to use you/Some of them want to get used by you/Some of them want to abuse you/Some of them want to be abused” :D And they were going further :D : “I wanna use you and abuse you/I wanna know what’s inside you” :D

  32. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 3:03 pm

    People have their own opinion which we can’t argue with them. Bush called bin Laden as fucker and bin Laden call Bush as fucker. Anyway I don’t call you with bad word like ‘fucker’ and you call me as fucker because it is illegal in my religion and may be it is legal in your religion.
    I am actually looking at the true picture which happens in porn. Its like wrestling in WWE. Those guys like Tripple H or Big Show will have to train for years to fight in the ring. Also only few guys have the ability to be a wrestler. We watch porn scenes for few minutes but actually it took days or weeks to complete the ‘few minutes’ scenes. Also only few porn girls have the ability to perform the ‘abuse’ scenes.
    I don’t think that I watch girls being raped in porn scenes because it is not like Julian Assange of wikileaks case where he face rape charge in Sweden.

  33. Kenneth Says:
    March 13th, 2011 at 5:34 pm

    It’s sad to read the comments of some writers here.
    They don’t mind the rape of some of the female performers at all. Vlad says that people are abused in all kinds of business.

    Let me be clear, a rape is the most extreme way of violence! The victims get trauma’s which they never forget for the rest of their lifes. How would you feel when your daughter woud be raped by 10 men?

    The fact that you don’t take it very seriously that women are raped and abused in the porn world makes you a raper too! But yes, you as a watcher, will not be arrested. And that’s your excuse!
    ” Hey, these DVD’s are being sold so why should i feel guilty!”

    Who says that Brandon Iron or Max Hardcore did not rape the girls in their movies, without knowing it themselves?
    I don’t think Sashe has a very big IQ, reading his disrespectfull comments. The only argument he has is that women do not prosecute, which for him means that there is no way of abuse.
    Even if Sashe would see an illegal movie of a minor 6 year old girl being raped by an adult man, he still would say that there is no way of abuse because she did not prosecute…

  34. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 14th, 2011 at 3:26 am

    Anyway if you have any facts or evidence that a 6 years old girl being raped by an adult man then you may personally make a report to the website of local authorities of that particular country. Sadly to know that you have no evidence for this type of case and hearsay will not be accepted by anyone. There is a rule by porn business that every porn performer must be above 18 years old and you may see the record of their age at the given address by the producer. For your info, I never watch any porn scene on the internet or DVD which shows a 6 year old girl was raped by an adult man.
    A statutory rape is sexual intercourse with a person (girl or boy) who has not reached the age of consent (even if both parties participate willingly). In criminal law, rape is an assault by a person involving sexual intercourse with another person without that person’s consent. Those criminals will be classified as sex offenders and will not be allowed to perform in porn movies produced by registered porn industries.
    As you said those porn girls are afraid to report of any rape case to the local authorities but sadly to know that you did not reveal their name and their official statement which says that they are afraid to make a police report.
    As far as I know that if the local authorities do not classified sex in porn scenes as rape than I have to accept those statement. Also there are few awards like AVN which gives awards to best porn films, porn performers, blah blah blah…I do not have my own opinion but the local authorities, not me says sex in porn business is legal and I have no authority to challenge the law.

  35. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 4:09 am

    I don’t know, you want to declare with yourself and you feels that that some sex scenes in porn is rape and the victims are afraid to make reports and prosecutes those individuals in court. Also no prosecution for the killings and injuries of thousands Iraqis civilians and damages in Iraq because of US led attack under the order of President George Bush with the advice from his black secretary on Iraq soil on 20 March 2003 to ousts Saddam Husein. Someone will say the US government are afraid to prosecute Mr Bush and his black secretary for those killings. I will say that its more sad to read all those news.
    As long as the law classify sex in porn is not rape than I have to accept those statement. I think the porn business will have to shut down their business if the law comes into effect in future. I have seen many girls have been abused in porn scenes like those porn films of Max Hardcore and many more but its their own business to make a report to the local authorities or prosecute them in court. Its the porn girls duty or responsibility to prosecute those guys and not me. I know those girls will be out of job for some reasons after her court appearances but I will say that I don’t care about their actions. Its like Mr Bush feels don’t care about the death of Iraqi civilians when he ordered the attack on Iraq soil with his US army in 2003. The excuse for the attack is weapon of mass destruction seems to be a false statement from the US government. But I don’t care about the excuse.

  36. Kenneth Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 7:11 am

    “I have seen many girls have been abused in porn scenes like those porn films of Max Hardcore”.
    So now you admit that abuse is reality in many porn movies? And still you keep watching the abusing scenes.

    Your argument is that you as a watcher cannot help it that these girls are abused. But what i don’t understand is that you keep watching those scenes. Would you do that too when a women in your street would be raped? Without doing anything???

    We as porn lovers have a responsibility too! That means that you have a choice to watch rape movies or not. I don’t watch them anymore because i know that they are being raped!

  37. Kenneth Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 7:20 am

    Your gonna tell me this is fake crying too?

    (http://www.xvideos.com/video41594/gagging_melissa_lauren)

  38. Kenneth Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 7:23 am

    In this famous scene Melissa has been abused which she later said in interviews too.
    It’s disgusting to see but the clip is still online! She cries and the director even did not stop it!

    Here is the link:

    (http://www.xvideos.com/video41594/gagging_melissa_lauren)

  39. Vlad Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 8:06 am

    :) Now I know exactly what Melissa Lauren really needs, more than plastic surgery and cosmetics: she needs to join the Schwarz side :D

  40. Kenneth Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 9:24 am

    Vlad, and you need a grave.

  41. Vlad The Horrible Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 9:52 am

    Yes, I’ve heard that “you will need a 2m wide grave but you should start digging it because you haven’t much time left” shit since I’ve squatted more than 300kg :)

    So, which one: http://www.findagrave.com/ :D ?

  42. Vlad The Horrible Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 9:52 am

    @ Annette: no offense, but it started to get funny :D !

  43. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 10:03 am

    You have to see the real world. You have to understand with no arguing that abuse and sex in porn is legal under the law and no actions can be taken to the porn companies. Porn girls should prosecute the porn companies with regards to the law and constitution if they feels that they were abused, raped, humiliate blah blah blah…and not crying on you tube or other sites to show their feedback, grievous, unhappiness etc.
    You should understand why sex or abuse in porn is been declared as legal by the government. Max Hardcore is in prison not because of the abuse case which you said. You should know the reasons.
    You cannot give direction to other people what they have to watch and what they should not watch because people are free to watch anything they like to watch. I don’t care if you watch abuse or rape in porn because that is not my business. If a women in my place was raped then she have to report the case to the local authority and the culprit will be arrested and spend his life for 30, 40 years and gets few strokes on his butt. I think if the porn girl don’t make an official report and prosecute in court then it will be fake crying.
    I think you should prosecute Mr Bush and his black girl sec in ICC for the damage which he and the black girl has done to the Iraqi people. But sadly the US government is afraid to prosecute a president and the people of Iraq is crying till today.

  44. Kenneth Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 10:38 am

    You keep saying that raped girls are fake crying and that they are no victims because they do not prosecute.

    It sounds to me like saying that Auschwitz did not exist and that 6 millions jews were not gassed at all. Even you would say that the gassed folks were no victims because they did not prosecute, even when they were dead.

    I agree, it is starting to get funny now. People like you keep deny all and just look away. Sashe, Maybe you are raped by your father too in your youth, just like male porn actor Jon Dough was raped by his father. In 2006 he committed suicide.

  45. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 11:50 am

    Unfortunately you have no names of those individuals or criminals who are responsible for the death of 6 millions Jews. You should prosecute those criminals who are dead by now by representing yourself for the Jews. Maybe you may ask for compensation for the Jews.
    Its none of your business to have a fake fucking imagination my private life and ha ha ha…who cares which guys fuck you…!

  46. Kenneth Says:
    March 15th, 2011 at 12:36 pm

    Sashe, maybe the nazis forgot to gass you? hahaha

    “SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS” gass in your mouth

  47. Vlad The Horrible Says:
    March 16th, 2011 at 9:06 am

    What’s wrong, Kenneth? They did not accept you as a porn actor, or you could not get a hard on?!

    You have read this post before posting this gassing proposal, Kenneth: http://blog.totallyannette.com/2009/02/23/farting-next-to-your-partner-or-just-a-fart-fetish/ ?!

  48. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 16th, 2011 at 9:24 am

    Yeah you are absolutely right dude. The Nazis of Germany under the command of Adolf Hitler who was born in Austria forgot to gas me because I was not born at that time. Give me any Nazi members name, where do they live and their phone numbers which still exist till today. Unfortunately you have no names and you don’t know where they live and also you do not know their phone number. But its like no logical to read your comments which says Nazis exist till today.

  49. Kenneth Says:
    March 16th, 2011 at 9:47 am

    lol, he says that nazis don’t exist today. You have not been in Argentina you little faggot?
    Of course i don’t know telephone numbers you sick dirty mind. Simon Wiesental did find them. You have an obsession for telephone numbers hahaha.

  50. Sashe Tharan Says:
    March 16th, 2011 at 2:34 pm

    I can see this type of dirty words from your comments but you should know that no one can see this type of dirty words in Bible. Because Jesus Christ don’t thought us all this dirty words or lessons of hurting other people. But why did you say those words? Because it comes from evil which gives you instruction in your mind to reveal those words in your comments.
    Anyway I am so sad to read your comments with dirty words. But anyway there is a reason Jesus creates people like you who like to write words which hurts other people’s feelings.
    Did you see similar words in Bible?

  51. Kenneth Says:
    March 16th, 2011 at 3:11 pm

    Oh now i see. You are religious! Oh my fucking god…! I hate religious fanatics like you. Sometimes i call Jesus the rotten fish of Nazareth…hehehe.

    Well, it’s true. prostitution is as old as the world. Jesus fucked the whore Maria Magdalena. But at least he was not a rape lover as you are.

  52. Rocco Romance Says:
    March 17th, 2011 at 3:58 am

    Why a lot of girls talk bad after doing porn?

    1. Money – Retired porn stars feels that they were paid less than their expectations. Porn companies earns a lot of money from internet porn website and the porn films but the cast received only very small portion of the total earnings of the porn companies.
    2. Attraction – I think we will see the rise in the number of newbies or new porn girls if there is a negative comments about porn business by ex-porn girls.
    3. Popularity – The ex-porn girls will be much more popular and becomes well known porn girls if they talk bad about porn. Maybe ex-porn girls may earn extra money from local news media for interviews or producing films of their personal life in porn.
    4. Revenge – Sometimes retired porn girls does not get a chance or were sidelined by the producers to act in some porn scenes. They are unhappy if they were not selected by the producers for their favorite scenes. They revealed this type of unhappiness after they quit porn.
    5. Anti porn – Retired porn girls might have co-operation with anti porn organizations to promote anti porn activities to ban porn business.
    6. Religion – Porn girls who have convert to other religion like Muslim will have some grievousness of their decision to enter porn business.
    7. Fun – Some porn girls will try to create something unusual behavior for fun. They could do anything they want. Its like those guys who creates virus or worms and pass it to other sites for fun or if they feels unhappy.

    Big Kiss

  53. Vlad The Horrible Says:
    March 17th, 2011 at 7:33 am

    Rocco Romance, you have made the point clearly!

    These girls and boys (and perhaps trannies, too) are lucky enough to get all the fun, all the money, and all the fans they can dream of and then some more, and then they get even more money and more attention by changing sides more often then they change their underwear!

    And all of a sudden we have people trolling the topic and throwing the discussion from Hitler to a hypothetical Jesus and back.

  54. Nacho Says:
    March 17th, 2011 at 9:35 pm

    I think ex-porn stars who talk bad about porn didn’t know that porn is billion dollars business and it spreads all over the world. Everyone involved in this business, from producers, directors, actress to porn fans are disappointed with their comments.
    I think those porn stars who talk bad about porn should be given warnings because it hurts the porn business. Maybe porn companies should charge them and bring them to justice to prevent other ex-porn girls from giving bad comments to porn business. Their comments discourage many people to start their career in porn business and it has further hit the porn business.

    Big Kiss.

  55. Kenneth Says:
    March 18th, 2011 at 5:26 am

    Nacho is an idiot too i believe. Charge people who have bad experiences in porn is censure. Sure there are enough actors who like their job but that does not mean that some have been abused, fysically or financially.

  56. Hardcore Rocco Says:
    March 18th, 2011 at 12:56 pm

    I believe that lots of girls are very brave by talking bad after doing porn because they are not related to porn business and they will not be out of job. Its like some football players who talk bad about their previous club; the club unable to sack them because they are not playing for the club.
    I think that porn companies should have some ideas to prevent those girls from talking bad about porn in future. Its similar to a situation where someone talk bad about my company which will hurt my business. I must prevent those people talking bad about my business.

  57. Italian Rocco Says:
    March 18th, 2011 at 11:40 pm

    I do believe that few hardcore porn scenes cannot be classified as abuse even though porn girls like Belladonna or Melissa Lauren crying and telling to the whole world that they are being abused which I considered as talking bad about porn.

    I think they should quit porn if they feels that there is an abuse case. Its similar to a situation where I will quit the job if I feels that the working condition is very bad to me.

  58. Johoba Says:
    March 19th, 2011 at 9:20 am

    If Melissa Lauren was abused, why did she go on to do 400 more scenes over the next 6 years. She loves it rough, she’s said so many times. She may be in porn but she is also an actress playing a part. If you sign up to do a scene for Anabolic video called “I wanna get faced fucked”, exactly what do you expect the scene will be like? Kenneth, thanks for referring me to that clip of hers. Great jerkoff material.

  59. Vlad The Horrible Says:
    March 19th, 2011 at 12:39 pm

    Perv comrade Johoba, you did not know that scene with Melissa Lauren :D ?! Kenneth did a great service to us, then :D

  60. Rocco Maniac Says:
    March 19th, 2011 at 1:02 pm

    I think few porn stars like Belladonna or Melissa Lauren admit that they were abused or raped with videos of crying images which can be watched by people all over the world can be classified as talking bad about porn which relates to the post by our porn queen, Miss Annette Schwartz who is the owner of this site. We have to admit that active porn girls also talking bad about porn.

    I will say those porn girls who are active till today and talking bad about porn are girls similar to all those girls which we see on the street. These porn girls are not bitches or sluts because they have wrong views about porn.

    Wake up to all those porn girls who are talking bad about porn. Open your eyes and see the real porn world which are natural and does not hurt anyone.

    Big Kiss

  61. Johoba Says:
    March 19th, 2011 at 1:34 pm

    No Vlad, hadn’t seen that one. Never been that big of a Melissa Lauren fan. Was too busy in that period watching Julie Silver and Dora Venter take absolute poundings from 3-5 guys and still look like they hadn’t gotten fucked nearly hard enough.

    Porn employs thousands of girls. I place little credence in people like Belladonna claiming she was abused. She was one of the most extreme performers out there for many many years, even directing over 70 vids herself. How do you feel abused and keep doing what she was doing and directing others doing it while feeling this way? Doesn’t make sense. If current porn girls feel abused, then stop doing porn. We are all free agents and free to do what we want or not do what we don’t want. Oh, well I was on drugs and needed to or Oh, well I couldn’t make the money I make in porn and feature dancing working at the local WalMart. Fine, then do your job and shut the fuck up. My boss yells at me sometimes when I don’t get a report in on time but I don’t put a video on Youtube of me crying about it. Are there cases of sleezy porn producers and directors who treat girls poorly, push them to do things they didn’t sign up for and don’t honor commitments. Yes, absolutely. And everyone in porn knows who they are…so don’t work for them. Oh well, it’s slow right now and I need the money. Fine then go in with your eyes wide open. But it doesn’t mean the whole industry is bad because a subset that work in it are.

    And Rocco Maniac, we all know it’s you Sashe Theran. I swear, does someone pay you by how many times you post to Annette’s blog? Put the mouse down and step away from the keyboard. And stop kissing everyone all the time.

  62. Kenneth Says:
    March 19th, 2011 at 5:31 pm

    Too bad Annette is not reacting here. The only thing she wrote us is to make money to her bank account.

  63. Christopher Clark Says:
    March 19th, 2011 at 11:51 pm

    I believe that the reasons porn girls are talking bad about porn because of popularity and of course it involves money. I will pretend to cry and show to other people in the world that porn is bad if someone agree to pay me big amount of money. People might forget those porn girls because they are classified as ex-porn but people will start to talk about them if they start to talk bad about porn.

    The question is that do they really have the feeling that they made wrong decision and they realize that porn is bad? As we all know that their opinion is wrong because we have no ability to go back to our young days and change our decisions. Its like Back To Future from Michael J Fox!!! He may change history by going back to his old time and see his great grandfather/mother only in films but not in real world.

    I think we have to look forward and not backward by only concentrate our current life which is happening right now. The past is history and it acts as a border in our life. Our only concern is our life and not others because our life will be miserable if we start to think of other people’s life or behavior.

    If anyone want to talk bad about porn, its their own business but I hope their statements will not give bad impressions to the porn world. Thank you.

  64. Kenneth Says:
    March 22nd, 2011 at 7:58 am

    Vlad wrote: “Perv comrade Johoba, you did not know that scene with Melissa Lauren :D ?! Kenneth did a great service to us, then :D

    Vlad, you’re welcome. As you never had a girlfriend or have been involved in any relationship with a women, i wish you a lot of wank fun.

    That must be the only way to have sex: Stroking your cock while watching a porn movie. Poor boy, now i completely understand you! You are frustrated that no women wants you! That’s why you are writing disrespectfully about the porn girls…This explains all! aaaaaaah poor Vlad…

  65. Vlad The Horrible Says:
    March 22nd, 2011 at 8:50 am

    I really wonder when I have ever been “disrespectful” about porn people (or any sex worker)?!

    There are prostitutes, too :D And sex with prostitutes is a lot cheaper than the entire relationship crap ;)

    I have no friends, whatsoever. I need no friends. It is my right to be alone ;) . That’s why I like democracy.

  66. David Says:
    March 28th, 2011 at 12:19 pm

    I guess a lot of girls or also guys realize that the porn stuff will always be a part of their life. Maybe someday you want to have a “normal” life, a husband, a house, a dog, kids and all this stuff. Do you want your kids to be confronted that her mother was a porn actress?
    Of course it is a job that you get paid for, but it is also a job were your psycho is beeing ruined. You can make the hard girl for a limited time, but one day you will recognize that you have been used. This is the moment when a lot of people get out of the business and realize that it was not the perfect job. Some get lost, some take drugs.

  67. Gina Says:
    March 31st, 2011 at 10:13 am

    Lots of girls entering porn are unhappy and in lack of confirmation, lacking natural self esteem . Being a film “star” compensates a lot I’d guess , at least for a while. Of course most of them wake up eventually and realize that the stuff they made always will be available on net and film etc, also for family and friends ..

  68. Sara Says:
    April 9th, 2011 at 7:27 pm

    Yes you should see this website “Dead Porn Stars” http://thepinkcross.org/gallery/?g2_itemId=84 and see what happened to famous porn stars like you! Some day your name will be in this website, so leave porn dirty industry.

  69. Khan9845314444 Says:
    April 10th, 2011 at 4:03 pm

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  70. Kenneth Says:
    April 11th, 2011 at 12:10 pm

    @Sara:

    I am shocked from the names i see on that website.
    From some stars like Missy i even did not know they were dead…

  71. Space Says:
    June 3rd, 2011 at 3:44 pm

    There is nothing that the mind cannot decide or “make” evil and threatening. The mass mind promotes the so-called rules of society, part of what I call the Lie. The implicit Lie demands that we conform to the “rules” in order to be acceptable members of society. With conformity in religion we are promised to “go to heaven”. With confirmity in business (e.g. the “dress code”, we feel we will be accepted, loved, cared for (and paid) if we dress in a certain way. “Man forbid” that we should go without a shirt or shoes, like I do every day. Of course I’m retired and not a business whore anymore. I did my share of whoring. The “rules” demand that we all behave and think the same, like a race of robots. The problem is that is an impossibility. God or Nature provides us with Love, Truth, sex; all these fly in the face of the Lie. If you believe the Lie, want to be a good little robot, you will live a pretense, like a churchgoer who thinks all their sins are forgiven by going to church. You want to be a comfortable, accepted little robot. But there’s no hiding from the truth that sex, lust, sexuality and Love are God-given and all INSEPARABLE. Love is our essence, but most of us cannot express Love fully; this repression brings about a surge of Love’s everpresent partner, lust. Like Love, lust is looking for oneness but in only a physical sense. Lust is prevalent because Love is not. That’s just the way it is. Whatever you do, give it your all and never regret anything. If you enjoyed it, leave it at that. If you learned something and evolved, that’s a rare thing. We must not fear anything, for it is through fear that certain interests (church, business, etc.) control us like herd. Most people who worry about or regret anything they have done are doing so because some group of fucked up losers has told them they should.

  72. Don Says:
    June 12th, 2011 at 2:42 am

    I think the main reason a lot of porn stars confess to their porn life as a sin is because they get tired of the business, like anybody else can with their job, and they want to move out into another venue, but they find they are not accepted because someone recognizes them and think “all (she) will do is try to have sex with everyone in the company and not actually do any work.

    I remember hearing that Bettie Page (classic era pin up and fetish model) thought her work was just harmless fun, then they took her and the people that produced her work to court, she became famous, but in a bad way, she turned to religion because people made stupid assumptions about her because of her work and basically went underground, not knowing that she was becoming a legend.
    I think she THOUGHT that, besides some few fetish followers, she was known and despised by all and was genuinely surprised to hear 30 years later that people thought the world of her and were imitating her.
    I also think the industry tends to just chew up people without proper compensation. From all her work that was duplicated and distributed, I bet she didn’t make a penny.

  73. Don Parion Says:
    September 10th, 2011 at 2:33 am

    Im Not don but he did hit the nail on the head with what ppl actually wanted

    Why do they talk bad about porn after they leave?
    Why do they claim abuse and rape and regret everything?

    Because porn is like going to a university out of state..Some ppl dont know why their in it..some wanna be docs and lawyers..Some dont think about the tuition…Those ppl have the time of their life at college OR porn lol…then they drop out or leave college…now they have to pay 30 thousand in loans..they hate college now why beacause of the problems it caused them…their credit goes down they cant get anymore loans…

    Its kinda like the porn industry once you get in it and have no exit plan..and once you leave…these ppl dont realize to often what they did..If they are popular stars then they arent going to get a normal job without ppl thinking good things about them…maybe not at all…those or reasons to regret being in it…THE COST OF YOUR PRIVACY…THE COST OF YOUR SANITY…THE COST OF YOU BEING LOOKED AT WITH TRUE RESPECT..IS LOST..U HAD SEX ON FILM FOR MONEY..I WONDER WHAT SOME OF THESE PPL WHO DONT REGRET IT DO REGRET?

  74. Robe Says:
    September 13th, 2011 at 3:05 am

    Io sono d’accordo con quanto hai detto Annette.Fare sesso e’ una cosa assolutamente naturale e non ci dovrebbe sentire in colpa per questo.Per quanto mi riguarda sarei molto felice se potessi soddisfare il mio appetito sessuale lavorando in questo settore,sarebbe meraviglioso,ma purtroppo non credo di essere adatto.Ho grande rispetto per le persone che lavorano nell’ ambito della pornografia,anche se purtroppo esistono dei rischi che riguardano la trasmissione di malattie sessuali.

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